Undoubtedly, surrogacy is a journey filled with questions and uncertainties. At Stronger Together Surrogacy, we believe that knowledge is power, so here is everything you need to know! We understand the importance of clear and comprehensive information, and we’re committed to empowering both intended parents and surrogates throughout the process.
Stronger Together Surrogacy is founded on the belief that open communication, empathy, and mutual respect are essential for building strong, supportive relationships. Above all, we strive to create a community where everyone feels valued and understood. By providing transparent information and guidance, we aim to help you make informed decisions and navigate the complexities of surrogacy with confidence.
We believe it’s crucial to understand the nuances of surrogacy before making any commitments. This journey involves significant emotional, physical, and legal considerations. By gaining a comprehensive understanding of the process, you can set realistic expectations, address potential challenges proactively, and build a strong foundation for your surrogacy journey.
Here are some frequently asked questions about surrogacy and everything you need to know.
What is Surrogacy?
Surrogacy is a reproductive arrangement where a woman agrees to carry and give birth to a child for another person or couple, often referred to as the intended parent(s) or IP(s). There are two primary types:
- Gestational surrogacy: Mostly used today, the surrogate has no genetic connection to the child. An embryo created from the intended parents’ eggs and sperm or that of donor gametes, is then transferred to the surrogate’s uterus.
- Traditional surrogacy: The surrogate is genetically related to the child as she uses her own eggs either by IVF (in vitro fertilization) egg retrieval then fertilized, or IUI (intrauterine insemination), where sperm is placed into the surrogate’s uterus under the direct care of a physician. This type is typically only seen in agreements between close friends and family in today’s world.
Who Needs Surrogacy?
Many individuals and couples turn to surrogacy for a variety of reasons. Here are some common circumstances:
- Uterine Factors: Women without a uterus or with conditions like uterine fibroids, endometriosis, or a history of failed IVF transfers may explore surrogacy.
- Medical Risks: Individuals with medical conditions that make pregnancy high-risk, such as heart disease, diabetes, or certain autoimmune disorders, may choose surrogacy to protect their health.
- Same-Sex Couples: Surrogacy offers the opportunity for same-sex couples to build their families.
- Recurrent Pregnancy Loss: Couples who have experienced multiple miscarriages may consider surrogacy as an alternative path to parenthood.
- Advanced Maternal Age: As a woman’s age increases, the challenges of pregnancy and the risks associated with it also rise. Surrogacy can be an option for older women desiring to have a child.
It’s important to note that these are just some common reasons why people choose surrogacy. Every individual’s journey is unique, and the decision to pursue surrogacy is a deeply personal one.
Who Can Become a Surrogate?
To become a surrogate, a woman must meet specific criteria to ensure she is physically, emotionally, and mentally prepared for the journey. At Stronger Together Surrogacy, our gestational surrogates must meet the following requirements:
- You are a United States citizen or legal resident.
- You are between the ages of 21 – 40.
- You have one or more children of your own.
- You have not had more than three C-sections.
- You have a Body Mass Index of under 33.
- You are a non-smoker and non-drug user.
- You have good physical & mental health.
- You have not had any major pregnancy complications.
- You agree to psychological, drug & criminal screening.
- You have a supportive partner, friend, or family member.
- You have not had more than six births.
How Does the Surrogacy Process Work?
The surrogacy process involves several steps, and at STS, we help you navigate the entire journey and limit your stress and uncertainty. In general, the process works like this:
- Matching: Intended parents and a surrogate are matched based on compatibility after the Intended parents have completed making embryos. At Stronger Together Surrogacy, we do everything we can to help our surrogates and intended parents through the journey.
- Medical Screening and Legal: Both parties undergo medical evaluations and have an attorney represent them in Legal Contracts. STS will recommend a list of Attorneys who specialize in ART Law (Assisted Reproductive Technology Law).
- Embryo Transfer: The embryo is transferred to the surrogate’s uterus through a catheter, in vitro fertilization (IVF).
- Pregnancy and Birth: Once the surrogate has a confirmed pregnancy, she carries to term and gives birth to the child.
- Parentage Confirmation: Around 12 weeks gestation, the Parentage Process will begin. This takes a short time with the Attorneys however once complete, the documents are submitted with the state. After submission, typically, this can take between 1-12 weeks, or sometimes longer.
What Are the Costs Involved in Surrogacy?
The cost of surrogacy varies depending on several factors, including legal fees, medical expenses, surrogate compensation, and agency fees. It’s essential to budget accordingly and explore potential financial assistance options.
What Are the Legal Considerations in Surrogacy?
Surrogacy laws vary widely by state and country, making it crucial to work with experienced legal professionals. Stronger Together Surrogacy evaluates these factors before matching to safeguard everyone throughout the process. Key legal considerations also include:
- Parental Rights: Establishing legal parental rights for the intended parents, which may involve pre-birth or post-birth orders.
- Surrogacy Agreements: Detailed contracts outlining the surrogate’s compensation, medical care, and responsibilities.
- Birth Certificates: Ensuring the intended parents are listed on the birth certificate.
What Are the Emotional and Psychological Implications?
Surrogacy can be an emotionally complex journey for both the intended parents and the surrogate. It’s essential to seek emotional support and counseling if needed. Open communication and understanding are key to navigating the emotional aspects of surrogacy. The team at Stronger Together Surrogacy specifically understands this process firsthand and has the tools to help our surrogates and intended parents navigate every step of the process.
What is the Role of a Surrogacy Agency?
Whether you are an intended parent or a surrogate, when you embark on a journey with Stronger Together Surrogacy, we promise our team will be beside you every step of the way. We promise to educate, lead, and guide you through your surrogacy journey. We will work tirelessly to help you achieve success and fulfill your dream.
At STS, we have the highest level of dedication to building families compared to any other agency. We’ll help you navigate the road, smooth the bumps, and cheer when we reach our destination. Every person who works at STS is dedicated to doing everything they can to help you build your family.
Can I Use a Known Surrogate?
While using a known surrogate is possible, it’s essential to have clear legal agreements in place. Surrogacy agencies often recommend using a gestational carrier who is screened and matched through the agency for added protection. We occasionally have independently matched surrogacy arrangements come to us at Stronger Together Surrogacy to safeguard the relationship and ensure a positive experience.
Why Choose Stronger Together Surrogacy?
At Stronger Together Surrogacy, we provide comprehensive support and guidance throughout the surrogacy journey. Our services include:
- Expert Matching: We carefully match surrogates and intended parents to ensure compatibility and shared values.
- Comprehensive Support: We offer a full spectrum of support for all parties involved.
- Transparency: Our process is transparent, with clear communication and detailed information at every step.
- Experienced Team: Our team of professionals has extensive experience in the surrogacy field, ensuring a smooth and successful journey.
Contact us today to learn more about surrogacy and how we can help you create your dream family.
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