The journey to parenthood through surrogacy is a remarkable one for both the intended parents and the surrogate. It’s an experience filled with anticipation, excitement, and profound gratitude. While the arrival of the baby is undoubtedly a joyous milestone for the new parents, the post-surrogacy period can also bring a mix of emotions and adjustments for the surrogate. Follow along as we explore the complexities of post-surrogacy life, offering guidance and support as you navigate a new normal.
Understanding Post-Surrogacy Emotions
Emotional Adjustment: After delivery, it’s natural to experience different emotions. Feelings of joy, relief, empowerment, all can intermingle. Recognizing and acknowledging these emotions is important, and reaching out to your Stronger Together Surrogacy coordinator if any are overwhelming.
Hormonal Changes: Postpartum hormones can impact your mood and emotions. It’s essential to be mindful of these changes and understand that it’s a normal part of the recovery process.
Bonding with the Baby: While the surrogacy agreement clearly defines the roles, it’s natural for surrogates to feel a bond with the baby they carried. It’s important to remember the joy you’ve brought to the intended parents and find peace in the role you played.
Tips for Transitioning Back to Normal Life
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Self-Care
Your body has gone through a significant experience. Follow your doctor’s recommendations for postpartum care, rest, and recovery. Prioritize your health and well-being during this period. It might be helpful to keep a journal, talk to a trusted friend or family member, or seek professional counseling if needed. Engage in activities that follow your OB’s care instructions to promote relaxation and well-being, such as exercise, meditation, reading, or spending time in nature. Taking care of yourself physically, emotionally, and mentally will help you transition more smoothly. At Stronger Together Surrogacy, we do regular postpartum check-ins, however if you ever need additional support, please contact us!
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Reconnect with Your Daily Routine
Gradually reintroduce your regular activities and routines. Engage in hobbies you enjoy, spend time with loved ones, and immerse yourself in your day-to-day life. Establishing a sense of normalcy can aid in your emotional adjustment.
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Finding Your Community
Connecting with other surrogates can bring you further empowerment and an amazing community. Sharing experiences and feelings with others who have gone through similar journeys can be incredibly comforting. If you find yourself struggling emotionally, we do regular check-ins throughout including postpartum, however if you ever need additional support, please contact us!
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Plan for the Future
Setting new personal and professional goals can help you look forward to the future. Whether it’s pursuing a new hobby, furthering your education, or setting career milestones, having something to strive for can be invigorating. Consider how your surrogacy journey has impacted you and what you’ve learned from the experience. This reflection can provide clarity and insight as you move forward in your life. You may even find yourself interested in another journey!!
The Importance of Professional Guidance from Stronger Together Surrogacy
Navigating the complexities of post-surrogacy life can be overwhelming. Stronger Together Surrogacy offers comprehensive support throughout your journey, including guidance and resources during the post-surrogacy period. Our team of professionals is dedicated to helping surrogates build a strong foundation for this unique journey.
Stronger Together Surrogacy is here to support you every step of the way as a new surrogate. Contact us today to learn more about our post-surrogacy resources and services. Follow for more blog alert on our social media platforms!
